Archive for March 25, 2008

Sexy Momma

One of the hardest things about being a single mother is the combination of being girlfriend to very single (no kids) partner and mother to 3 kids. I feel I have  a split personality when I make packed lunches and worry about children wearing their coats, and then act flirtatious and horny on a night out with Gary, all in the same day.

When I’m in mother mode, love and lust seem a million miles away but when I’m in passionate embrace mode, my mother genes don’t go, but they seem to hide, giving me the chance to be woman me as opposed to mother me.

Given a straight choice, obviously the mother me would be ‘it.’

Married people somehow combine the parenthood and sexual being thing which is very clever.

When you are single you come with kids, but they are your kids. You don’t necessarily want your man (not their father) to engage too much with them.

So you live life as a mother and a lover, almost separately.

No wonder you’re shattered.

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